Dear Moms: Get in the Picture!

Moms, let’s talk. When was the last time you were in a photo with your kids? Not the last time you took one of them, not the last time you snapped a cute sibling moment, but the last time you were actually in the frame? If you’re struggling to remember, you’re not alone.

One day, your children will look back at this moment and see not just a photo, but the love, laughter, and warmth you shared.

It’s so easy to stay behind the camera. Maybe you feel too busy, too tired, or not quite photo-ready. Maybe you’re waiting until you lose those last few pounds or until you have the perfect outfit. But here’s the truth: your kids don’t care about any of that. They just want to see you. And one day, when they look back on these moments, they’ll want to see the person who loved them the most in those photos, too.

Why You Need to Be in the Picture

1. Because Your Kids Will Cherish These Memories

Years from now, your kids won’t be zooming in to check if your hair was perfect or if you were wearing makeup. They’ll just see you—the way you smiled at them, the way you held them, the way you made them feel loved. These photos are not just for you; they’re for them.

2. Because You Are Part of the Story

Think about the family albums from your childhood. Do you love seeing pictures of your parents with you? Those pictures tell a story—of your childhood, of their love, of the time you spent together. If you’re always behind the camera, you’re missing from that story.

3. Because One Day, You’ll Be Grateful You Did

Life moves fast. One day, you’ll look back and wish you had more photos of these everyday moments. The snuggles, the giggles, the bedtime routines—these are the things you’ll want to remember.

How to Get in the Picture More Often

1. Hand the Camera to Someone Else

Your partner, a friend, even your kids! Ask them to take a few photos of you with the little ones. It doesn’t have to be fancy—just capturing a real moment is enough.

2. Use a Self-Timer or Tripod

Technology makes it easier than ever to get in the frame. Set up your phone or camera, hit the timer, and jump into the shot. It might feel silly at first, but it’s worth it.

3. Book a Professional Session

Make it a priority to have family photos taken regularly. A professional photographer (hi, that’s me! 😉) knows how to capture you beautifully and naturally, without any stress.

4. Embrace the Imperfection

Not every photo needs to be posed or styled. Some of the best moments are the unplanned ones—reading a book together, playing outside, even making silly faces. These are the photos that truly reflect your life.

A Challenge for You

This week, I challenge you to take one picture with your kids. Whether it’s a selfie, a candid moment, or a professional photo, just get in the frame. You deserve to be seen. Your kids deserve to have these memories. And one day, you’ll be so glad you did. ❤️

If you’re ready to make it official, let’s schedule a session. I’d love to help you capture these precious moments with your family. Let’s make sure you exist in the picture!

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